Our BooksNSW Women Partners of Bisexual Men

We’ve released a new book of interviews with women who are sharing their experience of their relationship breaking down due to their male partner being same sex attracted.

“There’s Something I Have to Tell You” follows the success of our previous publication “His Secret, Her Story’’ and is a collection of 20 women’s personal stories, in which each woman describes how she discovered her partner’s same sex attraction, her reaction and those of her family and friends, and how she navigated her way through her reactions and decisions to a new reality.

The book is available in paperback or as an e-book.

To order a paperback copy:

  1. Deposit $15 for postage and handling (per copy) by Electronic Funds Transfer to our bank account: Leichhardt Women’s Community Health Centre. BSB 062193 Account: 00800600. Please mark the funds transfer ‘’Women’s Book – (Your name)”.
  2. Send an email to us at womenpartners@lwchc.org.au confirming you have made the payment, and include your name and postal address.
  3. If you’d like to add to the postage by making a donation, your donation will help women on low incomes receive the book, particularly women in rural areas. Donations $2 and above are tax deductible.

Click here to find out how to order the paperback if you’re living outside Australia. 

To order an e-book:

The book is available on Books2Read including Amazon, Apple Books, Barnes and Noble and Angus and Robertson. The cost is $9.99.

  1. Click on the link: https://books2read.com/u/mYKM0o
  2. Follow the instructions for payment and delivery.

Alternatively, click here to download a free PDF of “There’s Something I Have to Tell You”.

For other orders, click here to download an Order Form. 


Our book, ‘His Secret, Her Story’, is the first comprehensive Australian publication telling the stories of Australian women dealing with their male partner’s same sex attraction.

The book was funded by NSW Health and there is no cost other than postage, and if you want, a voluntary donation.

HOW TO ORDER His Secret Her Story:

Postage payment details
There is a suggested postage and handling fee of $10 or $5 (depending on what you can afford). Contact us for details on bulk postage.

Payment can be made by
Cheque payable to Leichhardt Women’s Community Health Centre
PO Box 240 Leichhardt NSW 2040 Attention: Women Partners
Electronic Funds Transfer to the Leichhardt Women’s bank account
BSB: 062193 Account number: 00800600

Be sure to email or post your details so the book and receipt can be sent to you.

Additional to postage & handling, donations are greatly appreciated and are tax deductible. $50, $25 or $15 are suggested amounts which will help the book to be sent where its greatly needed – to women in country areas. If you can, add your donation to your postage payment.

Contact Us if you have any questions.

Click here for articles from other sources we’ve compiled.

The Good Weekend’s national media in August 2008 brought a deluge of enquiries from new women. Thank you to all the wonderful women who met with journalist Greg Bearup. By opening up about their own experiences many women have been able to find information and support for themselves and their families. Contact Us if you’ve not seen the article, and we’ll send it to you.

Back in 2010 The Sydney Morning Herald, Melbourne Age and Brisbane Times published ‘The Secret Lives of Us’. Not every partner has been living a secret life, but this article may be of interest to women who do find their partner is living a double life.

The Australian Women’s Weekly wrote about ‘When the Other Woman is a Man’. Thank you again to the lovely women who shared their experiences with journalist Jordan Baker in the July 2010 edition of the Women’s Weekly.

More recently, in 2019, The Guardian published “Did I Ever Really Know Him” an article about a woman’s experience of her husband’s same sex attraction and behaviours. We were subsequently contacted by women around the world dealing with just this situation in their own relationship and seeking answers and support. Click here to read The Guardian’s article.